Friday, January 01, 2010

It's 2010!

Happy New Year everyone!

2009 was full of ups (working on the 2009 ISU World Figure Skating Championships and other new work opportunities, seeing Nora's sisters married, vacationing in SoCal, a great Christmas back in MN with Nora's family) and downs (Nick being layed off of his part time job for Mastermedia, Nick's grandmother passing away).

As always, we are both grateful for good health and generally no problems, and we are looking forward to a great 2010!

Happy New Year and God bless!

Tuesday, December 01, 2009

Our Favorite Christmas Movies

So, it’s the Christmas season again. On TV they are showing Christmas specials, some old and tried and true, others are new and really bad (Shrek the Halls is terrible, to name one). If you want to try something good, without the commercials, check out my list. Most of these are films Nora and I enjoy and come back to again and again. A few are films I found worthwhile or fun, though we may not revisit them every year. They are in alphabetical order, and all links are to Wikipedia, where you can find info, and links to each films IMDB entry. Most are family friendly, and those that aren't should be easy to spot.

Enjoy!

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A Christmas Carol – There are many, many versions of this classic tale. And why not, it is the story that captures everything we love about Christmas. The mood and feeling, the setting, the message, all are part of what we consider to be Christmas.

Of the many versions, I will suggest 4, and you can pick which you want to see. The 1999 TNT version with Patrick Stewart, the 1984 TV version with George C. Scott, the 1951 black and white with Alistair Sim, and the Muppet Christmas Carol starring Michael Caine. I haven’t seen the 1951 Sim version in a while, but it was the first film version I saw, and is considered by many to be the best.

I think it is interesting to see how differently actors play Scrooge. Stewart is more of a hurt, driven man, bitter about life, and you see how his gruffness and dislike of Christmas is something he wants to overcome, but doesn’t know how. Scott is more bitter and shows more gruffness, we don’t see the hurt as much, it’s buried deeper, and he seems less like he wants to change. Caine seems to almost relish his bitterness and resentment and enjoy hurting others, lashing out because of what happened. Sim I don’t remember well (it’s been a while) but I recall him being really great, and that’s my recollection as a kid.

Each film is different. I remember the 1951 film being excellent. It is black and white, and the effects are not as polished as later versions, but it has a charm. I want to revisit this one this year. The 1984 version has many practical and lighting effects, and they are well done. It is one of the more frightening of the films, although I think the handling of the 3rd ghost lacks something. The Muppet version is a truly great telling, but you have to deal with the Muppets being in the film. The frightening aspects are toned down some by the humor, and it is one of the more humorous takes on the story. And the 1999 version is the first, other than the Muppet version, to use CGI effects to tell the story, and by and large they work very well, adding realism where the practical effects couldn’t.

All are well done in every respect, from the supporting actors to the direction to the period details.

Whatever version you choose, enjoy it! It’s a great story, and all of those I mentioned are really wonderful.

A Christmas StoryWhat a hoot! I hadn’t seen this till last year (I know, I was sheltered...) and I loved it. Yeah, it’s not the best message (what really makes Christmas good is getting the right BB gun!) but it also emphasizes the importance of family. And anyway, it’s just a fun outing back to childhood in the 1930’s and 40's. It feels right for the 30’s and 40's, and evokes memories of my own childhood Christmases. It’s a fun, funny film.

Better Off Dead – You might need to be a teenager, or have been one in the 80’s to enjoy this (Nora didn’t like it). A broad comedy about the things teenagers deal with, and how everything that happens feels like the end of the world. The whole film is over the top crazy, the world the way a teenager with lots of imagination would see it. And who wouldn’t fall in love with a French foreign exchange student who can fix cars and loves baseball?

Christmas in Connecticut (1945) - For the record, this vision of CT is nowhere near what it is like now, and I kind of doubt it ever was that way really. But it is a vision that is warm and inviting, and very Christmassy. The film is a funny screwball comedy with a great cast, especially S.Z. Sakall, playing lovable and funny uncle Felix (“it is a catastroff”) and Sidney Greenstreet, who gets to play a character who isn’t evil for once. A heroic naval officer on leave after being rescued at sea wants to visit the Connecticut farm and family of his favorite magazine food writer for Christmas. She’s not married, doesn’t live on a farm, but decides to fake it all because her publisher (Greenstreet) doesn’t know either! Quite a fun film, and fairly romantic for those inclined that way.

The Chronicles of Narnia: The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe (2005) – C.S. Lewis’ classic fantasy story. While I had issues with the film (I think Aslan could be a bit more fearsome, making the “not a tame lion” line more appropriate) I generally like it a lot. It is a Christmas film only in the sense of it being winter in Narnia, and the appearance of Father Christmas. But I think that qualifies. A great story of betrayal, sacrifice and the ultimate triumph of good.

Die Hard – Bruce Willis kills German terrorists in a skyscraper and single handedly saves Christmas. Honestly, what could be better? A classic action movie, with a performance by Willis that is really quite good (McClane bleeds and hurts, but keeps going) and a taught, thrilling, and funny script. A truly “guy” Christmas movie. Yippee Kiyay...

Elf – A very engaging little Christmas story that appeals to children but has enough substance to appeal to adults. Will Farrell gets the magic and wonder of being an “innocent” elf-like human dealing with the very not innocent real world. The whole film works, and it’s got a whimsy and heart that makes it a truly classic Christmas film, and one of Farrell’s best. It evokes what we hate, and love about Christmas. It was directed by Jon Favreau, who also directed... Iron Man. What a difference, eh?

The Holiday - A fun little romantic comedy, set in England and LA. Two women who have romantic troubles at home, decide to swap houses for the week between Christmas and New Years. Comedy and romance ensue. The leads are played by Kate Winslet and Cameron Diaz (and the love interests by Jude Law and Jack Black, who plays it pretty straight) and look for a wonderful performance by the great Eli Wallach as an older and forgotten screenwriter Kate's character befriends in LA.

Not the best film, or the best romantic comedy ever, but it is fun and romantic and a nice way to spend an evening.

Holiday Inn - A formulaic “show” story in which Fred Astaire dances and Bing Crosby sings. One of the best tap/ballroom dancers ever and one of the best singers ever, how can you beat that? And they are both at the height of their abilities and popularity. Throw in the songs of Irving Berlin (several of which are now classics) a great script with a lot of funny situations and lines, a great supporting cast, and you have a really good little film. Both Fred and Bing have great comic timing. Fred’s dance for the 4th of July is classic, and shows off just how good he was. Bing’s singing of White Christmas is what started that song on its way to being recorded by everyone, and still played today. He does it best, period. The film is only partially about Christmas, much of the story takes place on other holidays, but its theme and overall tone are Christmas related. I revisit this one almost every Christmas, and I still enjoy it!

Home Alone – A funny movie, in a very slapstick kind of way. What can I say? I remember as a kid really wanting to be left home alone, and wanting to be able to design all those devices to catch a burglar! The film is sort of A Christmas Carol for kids. Kevin wants to be alone. He gets it, and realizes he likes his family, even if they are a pain. It was a big hit when it came out, and it’s easy to see why when revisited.

It's a Wonderful Life - A great film with a great message. I think all those who have had dreams about what they want to do in life can identify with George Bailey. The point of the film is that Bailey’s life is truly wonderful. It may not seem as great as what he dreamed, but he has touched the lives of many people, and changed his world in greater ways than he ever thought. It’s a great film to couple with A Christmas Carol. The two main characters are complimentary. Bailey wishes he followed his dream and didn’t get caught up in the relationships he did; Scrooge did exactly that. Bailey has made the world a better place and left his mark on it, even if he doesn’t see it; Scrooge realizes at the end how much he missed and how little the world will miss him. The film has marvelous supporting characters, and really works on all levels. It is funny, heart breaking, inspiring, and everything that a great film should be.

Make sure you see it is black and white, as it was intended. This is something I would say about ALL films. See them in the proper aspect ratio (the height to width ratio of the film) and in the proper coloring. The black and white, in this case, is more atmospheric and shadows are used a great deal. Black and white also focuses attention on the characters and performances, as there is less to distract you from them.

Joyeux Noel – We saw this film last year, and just loved it. It’s a foreign film about the real life “Christmas Truce” between French, German and Scottish troops on the front lines of WW I in 1914. The film shows the climate of pre-war Europe, where people were taught from childhood that certain nation’s people were dangerous, and even evil. And it shows how they discover that really, they are all much more alike than they think. While the exact event shown didn’t take place, it is a conglomerate of events that did. The film is definitely a drama, and it’s most chilling moments are the poems spoken by the children at the beginning (telling of the evil of other nations people) and the speech of the Bishop at the end (a verbatim speech given at the time apparently). But it is also very heartwarming and inspiring. The depiction of the encounter, as people who were enemies become friends, brought together by Christ and Christmas, plays out wonderfully. The character of the Scottish priest, who feels that no matter who they are, if a person is Christian, they are brothers, is inspiring.

The film is really worth seeking out. It is in French, German and English, and that adds to the experience.

Love Actually – I can only recommend this film with a very big qualification, which I will explain below. The film is about love. We all search for it, we all need it, and we want the real thing, not the fake version. The film follows the lives of a bunch of people in dealing with their love lives in various loosely and interrelated stories set in England during the Christmas season. There is the man who just lost the love of his life, his son who is dealing with that, and with budding love for a young schoolmate; the politician falling in love with a commoner; the newspaper editor falling in love with his assistant and out of love with his wife, who just wants to keep him and really loves him; and on and on and on it goes, at least 8 to 12 separate stories.

And one couple is the reason for my qualification. The couple, who are very introverted, meet because they are stand-ins for a nude scene in a movie. Each is falling in love with the others inner person, while the outer and physical person is bared for all to see. And of course, that is the problem I have, because it is all out there. I see the point of that storyline, and I really think it has a great message (the physical really isn’t that important to true love) but I can’t justify the manner in which it is done. The storyline could have been kept, just crop the shots a bit, or have them stay clothed.

If you can get past the nudity, the film is truly one of the better (and funnier) romantic comedies I’ve seen. It is complex, but has a simple, and I think true, message about the search for love that we all have. Ultimately, as a Christian, I know that this season is about the One who can fulfill that desire.

Miracle on 34th Street (1947) – The quintessential Santa story. The 1947 black and white version is the best, in my opinion. Edmund Gwenn IS Santa Claus. The film is about realizing there is a place for imagination, that life can be to all consuming and that sometimes miracles do happen. As a side note, it teaches economics a little, showing how better service and treating the customer right creates more choice and lower prices for the consumer, and higher profits for the seller (creating a reverse Nash equilibrium, if I recall correctly). Wonderfully shot, wonderfully acted and a great story, with lots of heart.

The Polar Express – A fun movie about seeing and believing. It’s a great ride, and the animation/performance capture is amazing. I am not a fan of telling kids Santa is real (this would hold true for Miracle on 34th Street as well), but I am a fan of showing them what faith is in terms they understand. Santa is one way to understand it, both with the mind and the heart and emotions. The film is fun and magical.

The Santa Clause – A funny movie, with lots of heart, and a pretty inventive story really, about how they replace, or find, a new Santa Claus. The story works, and all the players hit the right notes. The main character goes from seeing Christmas as just a time for more profit, to seeing what is really important. It’s heartwarming and funny. See below about the sequels.

The Thin Man – A great comic detective movie that takes place around Christmas. Nick Charles is a retired detective who likes to drink and is always ready with a quip. Nora is the wife who gives as good as she gets from him (and even tries to best him at the drinking). The chemistry of the two stars is amazing, and spawned another 4 films (that are all fun). William Powell is wonderful as Nick, and Myrna Loy is elegant, funny, beautiful and everything any guy could ever want in a wife (I agree with Jimmy Stewart, who said “There ought to be a law against any man who doesn't want to marry Myrna Loy.”) Their relationship is quirky and fun, but it works and you can tell they really love each other. Good plot, great acting, well directed. The second film in the series After the Thin Man is really good as well, and takes place over New Years.

We’re No Angels (1955) – I remember this film, a comedy starring Humphrey Bogart, Peter Ustinov and Aldo Rey, as being hysterical and fun. I haven’t seen it in years. It’s a story of 3 convicts who break out of prison, go to rob a house, and end up helping the family that lives there get out of their troubles. I’ll have to see it again this year. I remember being struck by how good Bogart was at comedy, and how funny Ustinov could be. Really worth checking out. Be aware, there is a remake that is not nearly as good by all accounts.

While You Were Sleeping – A romantic comedy, that is funny and heartwarming. The leads are solid, but it’s the supporting cast that gets me. They are well written, and provide a real warmth and truth to the story, and much of the humor. It’s not the best film ever, but it works. It’s romantic and fun. I felt “The Proposal” followed the plot of this film in many ways, but wasn’t quite as good, and wasn’t about Christmas. I still quote lines from this film, as does most of my family when we have a big dinner together!

White Christmas - Yes, the story is forgettable. Essentially it’s a Christmas version of the old musical formula “let’s put on a show” (and sort of a remake/sequel to Holiday Inn).

What makes it enjoyable is the dancing and singing and sheer talent of the stars. You have Bing Crosby, as I said before one of the best singers of his era (or any era) and the real “voice of Christmas” if there is one. You have Danny Kaye, a truly funny man who was fantastically multi-talented (he wasn’t a dancer at all, but you’d think so watching him!) Then you have the genuine dancing talent of Vera Ellen, one of the more talented dancers to hit Hollywood (in choreography by the great Bob Fosse, though he wasn’t credited). And of course, Rosemary Clooney who is a great match to Crosby as a singer. The director is Michael Curtiz, who seems to pop up directing a huge number of classic films, including the great Casablanca.

The supporting cast, including Oscar winner Dean Jagger and Mary Wickes and many others, fill out the film well.

It’s not the best movie ever, but it was and is a favorite of mine. It is just fun music and dancing, and has lots of schmaltz and heart. There is a reason it was the highest grossing film of 1954.

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And there are a few I suggest you stay away from.

The Grinch - HORRID. Not funny, a waste of film and talent. I seriously didn’t laugh once, and I generally like Carrey’s comedy. The 1966 How the Grinch Stole Christmas, however, is wonderful.

Christmas With The Kranks - funny at points, but very grating in many ways. The message is about Christmas being about the commercialization (we HAVE to do the party, the snowman, the lights), but I guess it gets at it being about family. But why would anyone care if you decided to go to the Bahamas for Christmas, and react the way the people in this story react? If they did, I can tell you I’d be moving away from that neighborhood REALLY fast.

The Santa Clause Sequels – The second film is okay, there are a few funny moments and it’s pretty and romantic. Not bad, but not great. The third is stupid and a waste of time.

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Anyway, again, feel free to post your favorites in the comments! I left out the TV specials from this list, but there are many I like. The original Year Without A Santa Clause, the classic Red Skelton episodes (especially his version of O’Henry’s The Cop and the Anthem), A Charlie Brown Christmas is a classic, for good reason.

I note that many lists include The Bishop’s Wife (1947). I have seen it, however I don’t remember it well, and I remember not really liking it. I’m planning on checking it out again this year.

So, check these out, tell me how much you hate or love some of these. Tell me how you can’t believe I left out your favorite, and I’ll try to watch it this year!

Merry Christmas!

Thursday, November 19, 2009

Sarah Palin as Bugs Bunny

I think the media and political figures are underestimating Sarah Palin. She is popular not because she is a great politician or political figure.

She is, essentially, very American.

The American archetype is not like our current President, or really like our last one, or even like what our media and academics would like us to think we want. He's not European or Asian in his mentality.

The American archetype is like Bugs Bunny, at least the Bugs in the Chuck Jones cartoons.



Chuck's version of Bugs is a guy who is wise cracking and always seems to say something that gets him in trouble with someone else, usually because Bugs is right in his observation, cheeky enough to say so, and the other little fellow doesn't like it. Bugs never really starts a fight, but once the fight is engaged he fights hard. "Of course you know, this means war" is one of his catch phrases.

Bugs is also smart. His fighting usually involves words or wordplay, outsmarting the opponent who is bigger, faster or more well armed.

I think Palin is very similar to Bugs in certain respects. She was the target of a smear campaign during the election that was pretty brutal. She seems to be saying, "Of course you know, this means war." Now she's hitting back against all the stuff that was said about her.

And while doing so, she is saying what many people feel about politics and politicians.

People are fed up with politicians that say one thing, do another, make excuses for why they couldn't do what they said and then tell you that you should support them anyway. People are fed up with both parties running around saying they are doing what is best for the country and then proffering legislation or ideas that do the opposite.

Palin is the highest profile person out there saying enough is enough and hitting back; she is a political figure but has the credibility to says she's not like what I outlined above. She is, in many senses, a maverick.

Her counterattack is swift, powerful and straightforward. It may not be nuanced, which I think is what most of the "fabrications" or "falshoods" in her book and comments really are, but it is finally an answer and counterattack to all the stuff said about her and about conservative thought in general. It's an answer to all the namby-pamby wishy-washy comments that most politicians give as answers to those who question them.

And she is correct about the large majority of what she says. She is pointing out the stupidity, on it's face, about many things that are passing for "intelligent" ideas these days.

Newsweek has her on the cover, saying she isn't good for the GOP. Damn straight! She's not good for either party. But she is good for the common sense, normal American who sees everything they hold dear crumbling around them. Here, finally, they see a political figure who says what they think and doesn't seem like she's doing it for political gain! Well, at least for bad political gain, because obviously, she gets something out of doing this.




Bugs Bunny could never run the country. But he can start the fight.

I don't think Palin would make a good President. But she doesn't need to be. She's the fight starter. She's getting the people to stand up, take a look, and demand that politicians be held accountable for what they do.

Now what we need are people to run for office who can truly think through issues, stand on principles that have firm foundations, and persuade others why those principles are solid and they should follow them.

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Cell Phone Woe

Well, I learned this past couple days that you CAN have your cell phone hacked like a computer. Someone ran up about $500 worth of international calls that came FROM our phones! I had no idea you could do that.

The good news is that it looks like things are getting cleared up pretty easily. Our carrier has been great, minimal issues getting it taken care of. Just a pain in the neck...

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Been a While...

Okay, so I (we) haven't updated in quite a while. Since April.

It's not that I didn't want to or didn't have much to say. I think I just got tired of it, and I found other outlets for my observations and comments. This seems to be a regular thing with me. I gradually lose interest in blogging.

But, I will try to update a bit more. I think that is sufficiently vague to keep me from having to update more than once a year!

I shall be posting a list of Christmas movies this year. Nora and I saw a few new films that were quite good, so... look for it!

Friday, April 17, 2009

Currently My Favorite Christian/Praise Song

Magnificent

Magnificent
Magnificent
I was born,
I was born to be with you
In this space and time
After that and ever after I haven't had a clue
Only to break rhyme
This foolishness can leave a heart black and blue

Chorus:
Only love, only love can leave such a mark
But only love, only love can heal such a scar

I was born
I was born to sing for you
I didn't have a choice, but to lift you up
And sing whatever song you wanted me to
I give you back my voice
From the womb my first cry, it was a joyful noise...

Chorus

Justified till we die, you and I will magnify
The Magnificent
Magnificent

Chorus 2:
Only love, only love can leave such a mark
But only love, only love unites our hearts

Justify till we die, you and I will magnify
The Magnificent
Magnificent
Magnificent

Wednesday, April 08, 2009

3 Years Ago Today...



Love you honey, more now than ever!

Tuesday, April 07, 2009

Grill U

So... back in February I recorded the VO for a series of videos for Bush's Beans on grilling. 10 of them. Long session, but I digress.

They basically covered everything from how to grill different kinds of meat, preparing the grill, preparing the meat, rubs, marinades... lots of info.

And they are now up at www.GrillU.com!

My steaks have been turning out almost always perfect, same with chicken. So check it out. I didn't know what I didn't know about grilling till I did these!

Tuesday, March 31, 2009

My week at the World Figure Skating Championships

Well... it's over. And I kind of miss it, even though I am very glad it's over.

I mean the ISU World Figure Skating Championships 2009 in LA. See, they have been my life, at least work wise, for the past 2 months. And then this past week (9 days really) they were COMPLETELY my life.

I was one of 2 production coordinators (until the actual event the only one) for the Host Broadcaster for the Championships, a company run by a friend of mine called Red Brick Entertainment.

We shot the event, and then our feed was broadcast to over 80 countries all over the world. Those countries would then provide their own commentators and put in interviews and what not. Not only that, but many of the countries had their own teams who used some of our equipment, and for whom we had to arrange to get offices, commentary positions on the rink, and who knows what else.

Big job. Bigger than the Super Bowl in some ways (Super Bowl is only 1 network, we had 4 fully on site, and about 10 others with some kind of presence).

And it was a LOT of fun. We had pools going on how many falls there would be in any given event. I got to work with some great people. I got to experience figure skating live, and it is better that way. I got to meet Scott Hamilton, who is a really great guy. I got to participate in a world wide TV broadcast! How great is that?!

The days were long (2 in particular were 6:45am or 7am to midnight, and most of the others were 10 to 12 hours). Flurries of activity followed by periods of boredom. LOTS of coffee was drunk. I remember chatting with "Nora" and saying that in the past 2 hours I had 2 venti bolds from Starbucks. That was almost normal... Thing is, I had more coffee later in the day! Gotta get that caffeine to stay awake!

So now I'm home. I slept in today, got caught up on most of the other things I had going. Next week Rob, the executive producer and I, will have to go through everything and make sure all the invoices are sent and paid, and that we pay everyone, so it's not completely over. But the hard and long part is.

The event went EXTREMELY well on our end. The usual issues and little things that seem big at the time came up, but in general nothing went wrong, and everyone was very happy. This is a good thing for me, since I was a big part of preparing everything so that it would go well!

So, as I said, I shall miss the excitement and fun of a live broadcast, and definitely miss the friends I made, but I am glad it's over and I'm home. Now on to the next thing!


Me in Kiss and Cry, where the skaters go to find out their scores.

Thursday, March 19, 2009

Courtesy of the Starbucks Cup

The irony of commitment is that it's deeply liberating - in work, in play, in love. The act frees you from the tyranny of your internal critic, from the fear that likes to dress itself up and parade around as rational hesitation. To commit is to remove your head as the barrier to your life.

Anne Morriss - Starbucks customer from NYC. She describes herself as an "organization builder, restless American citizen, optimist."

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

"Change"... really?

Yep, it was all sunshine and lollipops when Obama was elected. The world was kinder, they liked us, everything was coming up roses... or was it?

Great article on the true world reaction to the "new tone" and "change".

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Nora and my love story began today at and after an inaugural ball:) I still love her, more now than ever!

Friday, January 16, 2009

Noonan on Obama

Well phrased...
... a long-oppressed people have raised up a president. It is moving and beautiful and speaks to the unending magic and sense of justice of our country. The other day the journalist John O'Sullivan noted that 150 years after slavery, a black man stands in the place of Lincoln in the inaugural stands, and this country has proved again that anything is possible, that if we can do this we can do anything. That is a good thing to remember at a difficult time.

Peggy Noonan

Read the whole column here.

I think that sums up my greatest pride in this election. I don't agree with Mr. Obama on many things. I do think he is smart, and I have been surprised and pleased by a few things since the election regarding picks for positions and policies. I hope that he changes his mind on many picks and policies because I think they will be a detriment to the country.

But that paragraph sums up my feelings on his win. I am pleased that he was elected because of that, and I support him as my president.

Good Clean Comedy...

I wish I would find more paragraphs like this in movie reviews...
What's even more amazing, "Paul Blart: Mall Cop" isn't "wholesome" as a code word for "boring." It's as slam-bang preposterous as any R-rated comedy you can name. It's just that Paul Blart and the film's other characters don't feel the need to use the f-word as the building block of every sentence. They rely on the rest of the English language, which proves adequate. - Roger Ebert, Paul Blart: Mall Cop

Sounds like a fun movie, according to Ebert... read the full review here.

Friday, January 09, 2009

53 Years Ago...

53 years ago today reports began coming out of the jungles in South America that 5 missionaries were missing and possibly dead.  Over the next few days those reports were found to be true.

Almost every Christian knows at least the name Jim Elliot or Nate Saint.  Most have heard an outline of the story somewhere.

It is a truly powerful story of 5 men who gave what they could not keep to gain what they could not lose, to paraphrase Elliot.

This video gives the main part of the story, and if you click through to YouTube you can find the 1st part.  Steven Curtis Chapman's music and words are more poignant now given what happened in his family last year.




If you want to delve into the story further, I would highly recommend the documentary "Beyond the Gates of Splendor".  On the 50th anniversary of the massacre that documentary and a feature film were released.  A shortened and not quite as powerful version of the documentary was shown in many churches at that time.  The film was called "End of the Spear" and was released around this time that year in honor the 50th anniversary.

The documentary is wonderful, well made, a great subject of course.  The movie is not quite as good, something you would see on the Hallmark Channel or something.  It suffers from some weak acting (the untrained Waodani who helped make it do a better job than some of the actors, including the lead unfortunately).  The direction is adequate, but not particularly great. The message was dimmed to appeal to a wider audience, but the message is a heavy message by nature, and that tension hurts it as well.

While I wouldn't recommend it, if you know those things going in, it is a powerful story, and it isn't a waste of time.  I'd definitely recommend the documentary.

If you really want to know more, definitely read the book "Through Gates of Splendor" by Elisabeth Elliot. Taken from Jim' journals, and the story of their relationship, it gives a portrait of a man who was truly sold out to God from the beginning.

It's the movie I would make of the story;)

Friday, January 02, 2009

Why Our Church's Christmas Service Depressed Me

Okay, so basically the Christmas service at our church was titled "Who is this Jesus anyway?" and was supposed to be exactly that.  Who Jesus was, and how He came into the world to bring hope to the hopeless.

They had a group from a local drama magnate school write and perform some short sketches that went with 4 specific areas of hopelessness in this world, and then each of the pastors gave a short sermonette from one of 4 passages in Jesus life showing how Jesus brought hope.  I don't remember exactly but they were things like "Freedom from bondage" and "Health from sickness" or something like that.

Interspersed were a few carols and/or performed pieces of music, including a choir piece.  Nora and I were in the choir.  That piece and one other were about the only directly Christmas related songs.

The problem was that the music started out with "Let All Mortal Flesh Keep Silent", with a very heavy, minor sound.  It's not a cheery song in general, and the way it was done was like the beginning of Lord of the Rings or something.  And then, though the carols were definitely carols and were sung by the congregation, the other pieces of music weren't.

Then the dramas, which were done fine for a bunch of high school freshman, were definitely about the problem, or hopelessness, of the different situations.  This is fine, except that people remember a short drama more than they remember a long lecture.  Here is the beginning of the problem.  

The pastors had also had recorded "prayers" for the city by random people in New Haven, but the recording was awful, and when they were understandable (seriously, at least one was about 3 minutes of garble that I, being right in front of a speaker, couldn't discern any words in) they needed to be heavily edited.  They were also about the problems, the hopelessness... "may God bring us hope and here's about 2 minutes of me talking about the problem" kind of prayers.  This was the one or two that were understandable, or were also written up in the program so you had a sense of what was being said.

The passages for the sermonettes were parables or miracles of Jesus, so they had nothing to do with Christmas directly.  In fact, the Christmas story was never really mentioned, other than the senior pastor saying we were all "in denial" about real life because we listen to "Frosty the Snowman" and other Christmas songs that don't really deal with the horribleness of life in this world.  They just gloss over it and we think, oh isn't life wonderful, and forget about the pain and suffering.

That may be true, but there are many other carols, played on the radio all the time, that DO deal with the suffering.  Most people hear pleas for help for the poor and downtrodden at Christmas.

Then, after the last performed song, which was a great folk rendition of "Joy to the World" and the only time people actually seemed to get into the service (they applauded!), the senior pastor got up and shared a story about torturing dogs!  I kid you not.  It had a point, but you don't tell a story about torturing dogs if you want to make people want to celebrate!  And it was the last thing said during the service...

So... basically if you were a non-Christian coming to the service, which was what they purported to want, you would think that Christians were dour people who look forward to someone making life better after death, but life now isn't worth living.

It just rubbed me and Nora the wrong way.  It was a Good Friday service at Christmas.  I have no problem with showing who Jesus really is, and no problem with showing how he came to give hope in a world that doesn't have much hope, but you have to focus on the hope, not the problems!

Christmas is the one time when many people think of others.  Nora's workplace had a toy drive for several homeless families.  Churches and other places of worship give out meals and gifts.  Yes, there is a commercialized aspect to Christmas.  But we also have multiple TV shows and movies and songs about how we shouldn't focus on that, we should focus on the One who came to earth, ultimately to give His life for us, or at least focus on giving to others in need.

I think deep down most of us see the commercialization, and we think back and realize that none of the gifts we got really ever made us happy.  We may need some prodding to realize it, but it's there.   We have a void, and Jesus ultimately came to fill that void! 

On top of that, radio stations play songs that are pretty open about declaring the true meaning and story of Christmas!  Songs like "Angels We Have Heard On High" and "I Heard The Bells On Christmas Day" and many other carols, that are basically Christian hymns, are played ad nauseum over the month leading to Christmas.  That can make you cynical, and there are silly fluff songs about Christmas that make we want to tear my hair out, but the songs that keep getting recorded, and that people really want to hear, are mostly about Jesus coming to earth!

We need to embrace the season, we don't need to give people the whole story of Jesus life and who He was in one service!  We need to entice them in to see the beginning of the story, and want to hear more.  We need to tap those realizations that people have deep down, that life isn't fulfilling this way, and show them it CAN be fulfilling with Jesus at the center. We need to show them we aren't just dour, sad people, we do have hope, and it is hope and a purpose that makes this life worth living, not just a hope of something better later on!

Anyway, that's what bothered me about the service.  The pastor closed by saying "now, isn't everyone ready for a celebration and some treats downstairs?!" and Nora said to me "I want a drink".  And she doesn't drink...

It was just depressing.  I mentioned this cautiously to a couple other people that night, and they agreed with me.  The one who did the folk rendition of "Joy to the World" even said, "we tried to bring some cheer, but [the senior pastor] just sucked it all out again at the end!"

Even after two other services at other churches that my sisters and mother were involved in, both of which were good, that had a much more cheerful messages (and very similar "Jesus brings hope" messages that were in line with what I said above)  I still felt depressed.  It took another week to get into the spirit of Christmas.  The spirit of joy that God came down to save us, to help us to have meaningful and joy filled lives, so that we could spread hope to the rest of the world.

So that's the story, for those who asked:)  I'm a bit bitter about it, really.  It was a tough enough season this year, with my sister and her husband moving to another country.  I didn't need to be reminded of the suffering, I needed to be reminded of the hope.

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Merry Christmas

Tis Christmas yet again... somehow I kept wanting to write lists of movies to watch, music to listen to, books to read... and they never happened.  Life is busy.  I had a very hard time getting into the Christmas spirit this year (partially because of my church's "Christmas" service... didn't help, actually hurt I think...)

However, Merry Christmas to everyone who reads this blog, which is probably fewer and fewer each day we don't update:-\

Here's my Christmas films list from last year.  Pretty much the same now, although next year I may have a couple to add...

For music... just remember the name Harry Connick Jr.:)

Merry Christmas!

Thursday, December 11, 2008

Nick and Nora's Holly Jolly Holiday Roast Coffee

Nick and Nora's Holly Jolly Holiday Roast Coffee
(Nora came up with the title).

Take your favorite whole bean coffee (We've been using different types from Trader Joe's... Dark Sumatra, French Roast, and some Bolivian blend, but any type will work.  Choose a coffee you like).

Then add the following:
Whole Cloves
Peppercorns
We use about 3 cloves and 3 or 4 peppercorns per 7-8 6oz. cups of coffee.

Put them in whole with the whole beans, and grind the lot.
After pouring the ground beans, cloves and peppercorns into the filter, add a dash of cinnamon.  As much or as little as you like.

Brew.

Enjoy a slightly spicy, very winter/Christmas coffee taste! We add a bit of milk and sugar:)















(In the interest of full disclosure, this is basically the same thing as Trader Joe's Winter Blend... but who wants to spend extra money?)

Friday, November 21, 2008

Eli Stone and Pushing Daisies Will Be No More:(

Well... several TV shows Nora and I like are basically being cancelled (though ABC did not say the word).

Pushing Daisies and Eli Stone.  And they are keeping Wife Swap and SuperNanny... sigh, what is this world coming to?  Two more creative, interesting and different (and very good) TV shows falling before the "lowest common denominator" ratings system they have on TV.

Stone hasn't been as good this year, although it was the highest rated of the 3 shows being canned (Dirty, Sexy, Money is also cancelled).  And the last couple episodes were better, getting back to the standard that made it so good last season.  Daisies won a bunch of Emmy's and was one of the more creative and different shows on TV.  It's been quite good this year as well as last.  I don't think there is another show like it.

Well, at least our new favorite Life on Mars will continue for a bit longer...

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Boston Legal on Abortion...

Nora and I both went to law school.  In fact, Nora works for a law firm, and I have begun providing creative services to law firms for trial (it's called trial support or litigation support).  So both of us enjoy legal movies or TV shows.
There is a show on ABC called "Boston Legal" which is a spin off of "The Practice".  It's in its final season.  We don't normally watch the show because a.) it's on at 10pm Monday nights and b.) the morality of the characters is usually horrendous.  Not to mention that legal shows in general take on "tough" subjects, and usually the "answers" to those subjects are from a liberal point of view, not taking into account other than casually the conservative point.  I like my TV, and I don't want to break it by throwing something at it:)

But last night, after watching a show we enjoy, the first few minutes of Boston Legal grabbed us both, and we watched the whole episode.

I should mention, the show has a great style, and one element of the style is that the actors sometimes address the fourth wall (the audience) in suble ways, like they know they are being watched on TV.

The major issue facing one team of lawyers was... abortion.  

In this episode, as soon as the client asked for representation (a 15 year old asian girl who wants a "judicial bypass" around the parental consent law), two lawyers began discussing what impact this would have if "life were a TV show and everything I say was being watched".  They discussed how to make it funny (the show is very cheeky and sarcastic) and William Shatner's character ended by saying how he could just hear people flipping the channel because of this issue.  I figured I should stay and watch!

The show began with discussions among the characters about abortion, and facinatingly and encouragingly, they really discussed it!  One character (played by James Spader) is a lawyer who believes in the "right to choose", another (Shatner) is conservative, and brings up the very compelling argument "what about the baby, does it get to choose?" and how they call it "the right to choose" and "a procedure instead of an abortion".  Another (played by Candace Bergen), brought in to have the "female perspective" is pro-choice, but really struggles with her own past of having had an abortion, and basically says the girl shouldn't have the procedure because it will scar her emotionally.  In fact at one point she is looking at sonograms of a baby at 16 weeks, and it is clear that it is a baby, and the implication in her face is that she is sorry and sad over her decision many years before.

I felt as the plot moved along that the writers were firmly pro-choice, but in creating compelling characters and a realistic look at the issues, they found it hard to argue against a true pro-life position, and really tried to make that point of view strong.  At one point William Shatner's character is talking with the James Spader's character about Roe vs. Wade.  Spader says that he can feel Roe being chipped away.  Shatner responds by stating that he thinks Spader is having trouble with that idea because he is not comfortable with his position morally, and Roe supports what he wants to believe, not the other way around.  A very good point.

I then felt the writers saw what was happening, and being liberal, decided to take it in a slightly different direction to bypass having to deal with the issue further.  They introduce the idea of the baby being female, the girl being Chinese, and that the girl was having the abortion because it was female and that many Chinese want males, not females.

And then the judge gave some pat "the law can't get involved in telling a girl why she can or can't abort" and took the easy, and liberal, way out.

But the last scene was Shatner and Spader talking about the case.  Shatner asks if Spader was part of any "procedures", and Spader says yes.  They talk a bit about how they weigh on Spader.  Spader then brings up that abortion may have reduced crime by a big percentage (because the aborted babies were the ones more likely to have committed crimes, being from single parent inner city households etc.).

Shatner ends the episode asking "does that help you to justify being part of those procedures?"  Spader says... no.

The sense I got from the show was that the Spader character is indicative, deep down, of most pro-choice people.  He believes it.  He wants it.  But he has a lot of trouble justifying it morally, and deep down knows that abortion is wrong.  The Candace Bergen character is also indicative of many women who have had abortions.  Still pro-choice because they have to justify the procedure they had, but if they had to choose again, they wouldn't choose abortion.  And I think the Shatner character was what many pro-life people should be like.  Firm in their belief, but willing to dialog, to question, to be delicate with the issue, instead of overbearing or inflammatory, the way many on both sides behave.

I go through this because, though I found that it didn't argue entirely fair (adoption was mentioned in passing among other things) it was an attempt to give fair weight to both sides, and I felt that pro-life came off very well.  It was amazing to see, in prime time, a show with major liberal stars with very definite liberal attitudes, dealing with abortion.  And really trying to deal with it and justify the pro-choice position, and having trouble doing so.  It was encouraging. 

If we can have more dialog like this, in shows, movies, whatever, I think that eventually abortion will be frowned on more and more, and that the legal status will be "chipped away" once and for all.